For those who "Mother"

Mother's day is here, and it got me thinking about all the people who epitomize what being a mother is all about, but are not "birth" mothers, and it helped me realize that being a mother is so much more than having given birth. Come to think about it, some of the most amazing moms and mother figures, such as teachers, aunts, sisters, caregivers, friends, etc., fall into a beautiful, diverse mosaic of inspired souls who have simply taken on the role. For me, to mother means to do our best to love, nurture, guide, protect, inspire, and empower another.

Mothering has many rewards, but they come as we make mistakes, triumph, grow as we go, and come to appreciate the poetic nature of the role. It is a journey filled with tenderness, tears, tough decisions and reciprocal teaching. It is about listening, having tremendous patience, and learning to be present for someone else. It is an emotional roller coaster ride that brings us great highs and lows as we experience our deepest joys, fears, hopes, and faith. When we are really fortunate, it can be about creating a powerful connection with another soul, loving, and being loved unconditionally. 

Mothering for some may begin with giving birth, but at its core it is about. loving and nurturing the light in another. For those of us who have lost our mothers, it can also be an opportunity to honor a legacy and pay forward some of the light we were blessed with, and miss so dearly.

So this Mother's Day, no matter the circumstance of your "mothering," you are to be commended. Thank you for  opening your heart, nurturing another soul, and sharing your love... I don't think there is anything more important you could be doing, for I don't know of anyone at any age who is not transformed by love.

So for all of you who "mother" another, Happy Mother's Day!

With love and gratitude for my own mother, and all those who have knowingly and unknowingly "mothered" me.

P Bowman